An advice

Me: Why do I always have to face difficulties? There are people who have no struggles in life and they are free to choose a life of their choice.

Her: I don’t care what others do. If your life is a struggle, I’ll be proud of you because that is what will make you stronger, wiser and humble. On occasions, when you think of boasting about your achievements, think about your journey and be grateful. When you have kids, let them know what struggles were, so they don’t take life for granted. For every struggle you go through now will bring a brighter future.

Is there any advice that you received which is close to your heart? Do share it here in the comments section below.

24 thoughts on “An advice

  1. What doesn’t kills you only makes you stronger…..
    It’s life and surely there’ll be adversities, but life won’t be thrilling enough without these….so feel blessed to have everything and never quit because only the fittest would thrive and survive and progress….

    Amazing it was by the way 😊😊

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  2. Out of a lifetime of personal and professional advices, one that helped me most came from a dear friend that if you really want something give it your all. Don’t give yourself excuses because the wins and losses are only yours.

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  3. “‘Regret hurts more than failures so stopping thinking about people and give your best for you should be able to face yourself at the day without any guilt.” This one advise made me strong enough to take decisions in life.

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    1. That’s a wonderful advice, Barkaat.. I also strongly believe we should have the liberty to take our decisions and avoid about what others think.. Thank you for sharing.. 🙂 ❤

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  4. ”Listen to your elder’s advice not because they are always right but because they have more experience of being wrong…”. Though I found this quote from google, the gist of has always a r


    1. Thank you so much.. I do agree.. When we don’t know what to do about a particular situation.. It’s best to follow our elder’s advice.. Sorry for the delay.. This was in the spam so had to move.. 🙂

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  5. The best advice I received was to expand my horizon, to let people in and that there are people out there who truly love you. Besides, during a depressing period of my life, a friend of mine assured me, “Help is available, buddy. You just need to ask for it.” These were the words that kept me going and help me see the light at the end of the tunnel.

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    1. That’s really inspiring, Nathi.. You seem to be very fun-loving person to me from what I can make out from your blogs.. Thank you for sharing these wise words and your experience.. 🙂 ❤

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      1. Thank you Ayesha for the opportunity to share these words. And I’m a little surprised to know that my blog portrays me as a fun- loving person which I am deep down. However, I rarely give such vibes if you come across me in person though. I can be little tough to crack open but ones we form a connection you’ll meet that fun loving person indeed😉

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      2. hahaha.. what you are deep down is what matters because that’s the real you. I’m glad I got it right. I got those vibes 😛 🙂 I really enjoyed your blog party.. It was such an innovative thought and I got the opportunity to meet so many new members in this community.. Cheers!

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      3. I’m glad to hear that you enjoyed the party and it helped you meet new bloggers! I’m happy that the blog party proved it’s purpose. Thanks for making it a success!

        Happy Blogging!

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  7. What I have learned through my life experiences is to choose to live without regret. That’s harder than it sounds at first but when you learn to master this way of thinking, it can really set you free. We ALL make bad choices in life but I CHOOSE to not regret any of them. I choose to see them not as mistakes but as a valuable life lesson. The ups and downs that I have experienced in life, sometimes due to my own actions, are what have make me who I am today. And I like me.

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    1. That’s such a wonderful message.. I really liked it… Thank you for sharing.. We should give ourselves the benefit of doubt, forgive and take care of ourselves.. We deserve it.. ❤

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  8. These are very touching and meaningful words. Indeed, our struggles are what truly define us. I remember one thing my mother always says, “Give your 100% in whatever you do. No matter how little the thing is, just give it all you have. Then, you won’t regret whatever the result be, cause you gave it everything you had.” Thankyou for reminding me what kindness is! Lovely post. 🌼
    -Firefly 🐝

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